4 posts tagged “friendship”

I found out today that a previously very close friend of mine have locked down her twitter account and unfriended me in Facebook. There were previously misunderstandings but I thought we passed them because she told me that she forgave me and we were good. She even referred to me as her best friend. I guess it's all lip service. It is still hard for me to understand when people just end relationships like this so abruptly, without any explanation.

True friends are suppose to love/accept/forgive you no matter what and try work things out with you. I guess my definition of what a true friend is doesn't apply to other people's definitions and I need to realize that.

My life is full of mistakes, and I know that. But I welcome those mistakes so that I can learn from them and grow from them. I never ever do anything knowingly hurtful on purpose, ever. It's just not who I am. If you are a true friend to someone, you will do what it takes to be a true friend, even if it means telling them how they fucked up and hurt you so that they can realize and understand. Then you both can work pass this. I guess my friendship really is worth nothing to some people and it really saddens me.

Out of the blue I get text messages from my friend Q
He said we need distance from each other for a while
because his new GF doesn't understand our friendship

wtf
I've been nothing but a friend to him

His last GF was also accusing us of having an affair too
and this was when I was Q's manager at work

I'm not one to cheat and I'm not an idiot to have a romantic relationship
with anyone I work with
that's just career suicide

So I told him that we don't need to be friends anymore
that he is attracted to insecure women that needs fixing
and that we can be friends again someday
but only if he grows balls

I don't need added drama in my life
I have enough of my own

When you feel the most alone.

No one to bring you ice cream.
No one to make you chicken noodle soup.
No one to hug you and kiss you and tell you that they'll take care of you.
No one to make sure you take your flu meds on time.
No one to tuck you in.
No one to take your temperature.

<25 min interruption>
Started with Tiger's tweet re our friend getting ice cream nearby
Start bitching with Tiger in IM about how we both want ice cream
Realized Molly Mon Ice Cream opens until 11pm
Hopped in car immediately and picked up Tiger
Happiness ensues as we savored the flavor
Dropped Tiger back off at her home
</25 min interruption>

Evidence:

Throat is getting worse and feeling crappier but I feel much better now with ice cream.